so i just the most peculiar dream. it's taken place in a very old and desert like village where lots of people resided. all were happy until one day the main chief ordered for a big chunk of people to leave the village. they were all very disappointed to hear that since they lived there all their lives. they didn't know why the chief was doing this. they had no other choice but to listen to the chief, grab their things and go. the rest of the people at the village wondered why the sudden idea. there was a girl who was watching everything from a far and when she saw the people start to leave she ran to them. she caught up to a lady up front and asked her why they were leaving and why they couldn't stay. the lady replied because the chief has asked us to. the girl told the lady that she had to stay in fact to come with her. the lady and they girl went back to see the chief. he was busy so they had to wait. there was another lady sitting next to them and the first lady commented on the other's waist. she said oh that's a lovely waist. what size it? it must be around 30' wide. at that moment the chief was  coming and heard her say that. he looked her in the eye and said i know my creations when i see or hear them. with that he asked her to leave. the girl stood up and yelled to the chief that he couldn't do that. she said if were any different from all the rest of the remaining people then they could also kick him out right? the chief responded with a no. the girl said then with what right did you throw these people out? chief just exclaimed that is none of your business and i want them out! the girl screamed at him and said no!!! her voice was so powerful that the chief had to sit down. and that was that. the chief ordered to have everyone back and soon everything was back to normal. or was it?

I am in love! But the guy I'm in love with doesn't even know I exist. This phrase can be from a situation so real as of very common, it's probably our feminine nature for which we often go searching or imagine a love that will never be since most woman love to cry for impossibles. Be it an actor, a singer, or a neighbor who doesn't even know of our existence. Are we masochistic or do we just like to make our life complicated?
 The bad thing though is when that challenge turns into an obsession because we can hurt ourselves more than we can handle.  It's not the same having a picture of someone then moving right in front of their house to spy on them from afar. Sometimes we get to the point when we get sick for that love that we will never get to live with it how we dreamed it. When we believe something that we know won't be possible we can lose the opportunity to find the love we so long wait for. Maybe it is time to analyze the situation and establish the limit in which we spend our time being crazy illusional in love to obsessed.
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